Apr 23, 2017

Playing Catch Up - and Floors!

Renovations are a feat of endurance. They are a balancing act between client and contractor. A sweet couple who opened their home to us to view our contractor's work before our project started, said something awesome that stuck with me. They basically said, "This is the most money we'll spend on anything at once, probably ever, so we decided to just have fun with it." I couldn't agree more! When I start to sweat the details or get aggravated, I remind myself what a dream it is to be able to make my ideal house. I LOVE choosing all the little pieces of the puzzle that will make our space perfectly suited to us, and have been gleefully planning this for four years since we first moved to this sweet spot.

Converting the kids' playroom into a multi-purpose space (kitchen, office, tv room, play area) has definitely had its challenges (why do we have so much STUFF??), but it's an adventure and something none of us will forget!

For a quick rundown, here's what's happened so far:

1. Demolition - two walls torn down, doors widened, carpets ripped up (hallelujah!!), kitchen removed and trashed (unfortunately our cabinets were too old to donate as I'd planned). This step took a little longer than expected because we needed to add a huge steel support beam, but now we're nice and secure!

Here's a pic of the initial demo - standing from the entry hall, this looks at what used to be a separate formal dining room and kitchen. Both were too small, so voila! One big space now! We widened both doorways going into the family room, but worked around our brick wall. I wanted a more open, airy space, but not totally wide open. A little separation keeps rooms feeling cozy, I think.

2. Electrical, plumbing, bringing in gas for our cooktop.

3. Drywall

4. Floors!!! These have been our biggest bump in the road thus far. Our existing subfloors were basically unusable, so there was lots of extra time and expense put into redoing them. But now our hardwoods are IN. We went with a character (or Euro) grade 4" white oak. Locally sourced which makes me happy. They are glorious. Once painting and trim carpentry are done, the crew will be back to sand and stain. Choosing a stain color will be my next challenge, but I really like them light! Maybe a very pale brown, just so it's not impossible to keep them looking clean.

Next steps will be installing the actual kitchen, new front doors, white mortar rub on the brick, then building our new bookshelves and drop zone. Phew - little by little, we are getting there!!

Oh, and lest you worry Ben and I have given up our DIY ways - here's what we've been working on this weekend. More paneling painting and painting the last remaining wood stained doors. It's brutal work, but it's saving us thousands of dollars. We spent the hours painting fantasizing about how lovely this will all be when it's done. And drinking beers of course. The kids kindly entertained themselves for several hours by collecting worms on the back patio!

Apr 12, 2017

Back from Hiatus! And Fun News!

Hi sweet friends - I'm still here, I'm still here!

Believe it or not, this blog has been on my mind for the past few years as it sat dormant. Life took over, as it should have. Parenting two small kids full time is all-consuming, with big highs and big lows. It's a season of life that is a beautiful, crazy whirlwind, and I can sense that as a family, we are slowly shifting into a new season now.

I've started freelance writing again on a part-time basis. Rosie began three-year-old preschool, and Max started (gasp!) kindergarten!! Lots of new beginnings! Kindergarten has been wonderful and joyful and sweet. I've been so grateful to see my guy thriving and excited about school, and gaining confidence every day. But it's also daunting. Packing the lunches and arriving on schedule; remembering the assignments, the forms, the spirit days, my volunteer shifts, oh my! The mornings now require that my kids are not only dressed, but also PRESENTABLE. Clean faces, brushed hair, tidy clothes - because that's just how it is when you are in real school!

So all of that rambling is to say - life has been rich and full and busy, but writing is calling to me. I love that I have the amazing opportunity to work again doing what I love. But I need to write for myself as well. For fun, to keep the creativity alive. And what better excuse to bring back "Cookies & Beer" than a major home renovation project?

Yep, we are two months into a full-on demo of the main floor - it all started with our (my) desire for hardwood floors. I could not handle white carpeting with small kids for another minute, by god! We quickly realized that if we intended to change our home's layout within the next few years, even just a little bit, it really should be done at the same time as the floors.

Fast forward through a few months of intense deliberation and financial analysis, and we found ourselves interviewing designers and eventually signing on for the little project that turned big. It started with floors and a modest kitchen update, and it kept growing - and growing, until we landed on a plan that took out two walls, widened doorways and gutted the kitchen. Oh, and then I wanted to upgrade our built-in bookshelves and tear out a closet to make way for a mudroom. Because when will ever we do any of this again? We decided to go big or go home! So here we are...

Luckily we found a fabulous designer and contractor who are along for the ride and are helping us make sure it's all just what we're dreaming of.

This project is scary and it's a major upheaval in our home life. But it's also fun and thrilling, and we are trying to make the most of our camp-out style, kitchen-free life for the moment. The payoff will be a home that works for our family, that feels beautiful and functional, that is easier to maintain and more eco-friendly.

If home renovations are your jam, then feel free to check back here - I'll try to post updates as we go along!

Jan 16, 2015

Everything's Rosie

It occurred to me that I have not shared a single peek into our home since move-in day. Unless you count the disassembled kitchen cabinets, which I don't. Most of the time, it's a hot mess around here. Like crazy tornado-style, four-alarm disaster. Not fit for public consumption.

But while the kitchen sits in shambles, I've been piecing together Rosie's bedroom. Pardon the not-so-great photos. The sun was going down, kids were racing around, and this mama was eager to snap pictures - a work in progress, but coming together. Note the poor stuffed bear - I'm telling you, nothing stays where you put it in this house. Future visitors: you've been warned. Put your sh#* up high if you want to see it again.
For a little back story, Miss R was sleeping with us in the master bedroom room until she was one; up until then, she had pink walls, a crib, and not much else. Poor gal! Must.finish. I will say that a major project of my pregnancy was settling on the appropriate pink color. I tested out about a gazillion, and settled on this: Romance by Sherwin Williams. The pictures don't do it justice, but it has just a touch of peach to it. It's incredibly soft and warm, without being too much.
I've loved gathering pieces for this room. Who knew I could let my girly flags fly so high?! The chest of drawers was a flea-market discovery a few weeks before Rosie was born. I spray-painted the mirror orange for another project, but decided it fits perfectly in here. Can't wait to hang it!

I love to keep out a few of her wonderful baby gifts, like this burp cloth made by Ben's aunt, and the penguin from my aunt and uncle. The lamp is by Anthropologie - but I snagged it from our local Buy/Sell/Trade group, which has some AMAZING finds, for $11!
We used to have a chic, expensive glider, but it was a victim of our Dave Ramsey budgeting purge. This Ikea rocker worked great with Max, and still works just fine for the handful of times per day I'm in here nursing Rosie. I love the blanket thrown over the back, a sweet handmade gift given to me as a baby and now passed down to my own kiddos.

The giraffe art is a canvas made by a talented friend back in Calgary. It was in Max's very first nursery, and now it's here. This space is simple, but all of the elements make me smile.

The custom valance was my latest steal from our local swap group. I was nerdily excited about this one. I think I made Ben come gaze at it about four times trying to get the appropriate level of appreciation out of him. It just works. And for $20!
The bunting is from one of my favorite antique/shabby chic boutiques, Three French Hens, in Nolensville, TN. {I initially bought it to use as decor at Rosie's first birthday party. Gotta love multitasking decorations!}

This room just feels cozy, peaceful and happy to me. Hopefully my baby girl feels the same way!

Dec 29, 2014

Of Holidays and Huge Projects

I hope everybody had a fabulous holiday! Ours was sweet, hectic and wonderful. The kids were so much fun. And we wore matching jammies. Enough said. And I could be biased, but I'm pretty sure I have the handsomest husband and cutest kids I've ever seen. :)

In other news, I lost my mind yesterday. It's been nice knowing you all, but I'm not sure if I'll survive my newest project. Here's what I did...
Yep, those are my kitchen cabinets. Without doors. Normally I'd clean up for photos, but who's got the time? Just keeping it real so nobody feels bad about their own mess!

When we bought this house, the plan was to paint our little hearts out until every.single.surface was new again. We've saved the most challenging spaces for last, but I've finally had enough of our drab, 80s looking space, so I removed all of the upper doors yesterday. These cabinets are great quality solid wood and should hold up for many more years with fresh paint. So far I've sanded them down (that power sander was FUN!) and plan to degloss and prime today. Those uppers will get a nice coat of white paint. I'll go in phases so the entire kitchen isn't disassembled at once.

Our thought is that we'll do the lowers in a dark charcoal (I've already painted the little peninsula that color and we love it), and keep everything up top white and bright. See that long section of cabinets over the sink? I want to go ahead and replace them with floating shelves. If we feel ambitious, we'll try to remove that bizarro tiled back splash and put up white beadboard. We like to store baby dolls and nail polish on the kitchen counter because that's just how we roll.
We are living with our faux wood laminate counters for the forseeable future, so we're trying to make them work. This inspiration photo should give you an idea of the end goal. Isn't it purdy?! {photo via Apartment Therapy}
I'm toying with the idea of antique brass hardware like this... what do you think?? I think this entire kitchen over at Hello From the Natos blog is so dreamy.
Well we're off to the hardware store for supplies. Wish us luck!!

Dec 2, 2014

What Goes Around

I just love random acts of kindness! And lately I've had lots of sweetness bestowed upon me.
While shopping with both kids a few weeks ago (I was wearing Rosie in her carrier, pushing my cart, and Max was pushing a tiny shopping cart around), my crew was literally clogging up the whole grocery aisle. I apologized as I tried to maneuver around and usher Max out of the way. I had noticed plenty of people getting antsy as they became stuck behind us or couldn't rush past easily enough.

But this time, one woman patiently waited at the end of the aisle, smiling. As we approached, she looked me in the eyes and said, "You're doing a good job." Nothing more, nothing less. Just, "You're doing a good job." She could have said nothing at all. She could have sighed, pretended to be busy with something, or even just smiled and left it at that. Instead, this woman, a total stranger, reached out and said the exact words I needed to hear. Not everyone here thinks my kids are out of control! Or that I'm a crazy, flustered mama! What a wonderful thing for one woman to reach out to another in this way. To offer support.

Today at the store, Rosie was once again in her carrier as I busied myself loading our groceries into the back of the car. Another stranger rushed over and offered to hold the shopping cart in place while I unloaded it. Amazing! My heart feels so full after these types of encounters. So grateful for the human capacity for kindness, that I can easily forget that often times all of us are just as equally grumpy, rushed, self-centered.
These two practiced their kindness skills by coloring together on Thanksgiving. :)

I'm definitely far from a saint, but I do TRY to remind myself that a smile, holding a door, friendly chit-chat - whatever kindness looks like at any given moment - can truly brighten a person's day. These acts of kindness are something I'm trying to focus on with the kids this holiday season. Because selfishly, boosting up others is a way of boosting ourselves up too. Kindness feels good. Not always easy, but the rewards are there for the taking.